By Erin Schneckloth

The wedding location is a very tough decision for many couples. If you know you want something out of the ordinary, but are afraid to venture into foreign territory (quite literally), consider tying the knot within the United States.

There are plenty of things to consider, however, before selecting a favorite getaway, childhood vacation spot, or a new place. Factors like budget (perhaps first and foremost), bridal party members’ budgets, and the ability for your bridal party and guests to travel to and from the destination with ease should be seriously considered.

I refer to U.S.-based weddings away from hometowns and current residencies as being semi-destination. If you’ve decided that having a semi-destination wedding is for you and your fiancé, consider the following U.S. destinations. I have visited, and even lived near, each location, and each is perhaps a bit out of the ordinary. Some are wallet-friendly, but all are romantic – and your guests will be guaranteed an unforgettable time.

Apalachicola, FL
A quaint Gulf fishing town

(Clockwise from top left: Apalachicola, talesfromtheroad.com; me, dining in Apalachicola in 2006; a bride and groom at the Old Time Soda Fountain, Paradise Images; Coombs Inn.)

When Weddingish approached me about being a guest blogger, I couldn’t resist the idea of sharing my thoughts and insights with potential brides.  But I couldn’t help but think: What do I have to share?

Plenty, I’ve discovered.

Since I began the wedding planning nearly six months ago, I’ve learned more than I ever thought I would know about weddings.  And I have discovered I have a sincere love of weddings, as well.  All that I’ve been through so far as a bride-to-be, like the research, flipping through countless bridal magazines, and setting up appointments with the endless list of vendors, have all added to my experience.  It’s an exhausting process.  A note for fellow brides to keep in mind: you are planning the most fabulous party of your life!

My fiancé and I have a very intimate affair set for this coming June in Colorado, over 1,000 miles away from our place in Los Angeles.  The first hurdle to planning this semi-destination wedding was planning our event based on only one trip through Colorado to meet with all our vendors, and that was in October – nine months before our wedding.  Having a small budget with which to work has presented its challenges, too.  Come to think of it, there have been several hurdles to overcome!

I am so excited to share my story, insights, inspiration and knowledge with the readers of the Weddingish blog.  I will revisit the planning and work I have done thus far, the work that has yet to be finished, and all the decisions and choices along the way.  Feel free to ask any questions, as well – I would love to hear from you!

Until next time…